Thursday, September 26, 2013

It's Okay

Hello Everybady

I am back today. And Today, unlike the other post, I am going to discuss something that I find quite annoying. This may be a short post, just like the one I will write straight after this post.

So, currently, two of my close (ish) friends are in a relationship. Let's call them Double A Batteries. And they are constantly getting hate from both me and my fellow classmates. I do it too, so you can call me a hypocrite, but I think it's important to say this.
When two people are in a relationship, it means they love each other (or maybe not, maybe they're just friends with benefits but whatever). And who cares if they're making out, they're a couple for fucks sake. And If they keep ignoring you, ignore them back. Don't start verbally expressing your distaste for their PDA (Public Displays of Affection). Even if it is awkward for us, imagine how awkward it is for them when we all start shouting "GUYS! STOP MAKING OUT BACK THERE!". Just as a reminder, I did say, 'Call me a hypocrite' up there ^^^ .
I know it's hard to not stare, but I feel people are getting hurt because of our actions towards them. And the things we may consider as 'jokes', to them it's really just taking a stab at them and their relationship. I know a few others in a relationship as a matter of fact. And I know they do't make out IN PUBLIC, they may do so in private IDK. BUT! Since we don't know about that, we don't make as many jibes at them. I'm staring at you. You know who you are. If you two start doing it as well, you better be prepared for AS MUCH, if not MORE jabs at you two. Why? Because I think it's only necessary in the case of 'revenge' and 'equality'. You can't just take your picks of choices in life without them having to affect you. So... Choose your straws wisely. And don't expect too much sympathy from me if your relationship gets prodded in a painful manner.

That is all.
To sum up :
1) Leave the Double A Batteries be. If they're making a mistake from your point of view, let them learn from their mistake, but don't push their learning. Leave them happy for while they can.

2) If you're in a relationship, you shouldn't criticize other people's relationships, or even express your distaste too much because, if you end up somehow doing the same thing, you'll just become a hypocrite, you can expect A LOT of the same teasing and jibes at you and you might wonder 'Why is everyone saying this kind of stuff to us?'. I'll tell you now, speak to others, the way you want to be spoken back to. Otherwise don't speak at all.

Soo.. Just leave them be. I'm sure they'll learn eventually. Just wait.

Y'all be well now
-J

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