Saturday, November 23, 2013

Bwahahahahahahahahahaaaaaaaa Whee! Happeh Fun Timez!

YELLO EVARYBADY!
I am back. Not that I was gone anywhere, just..... Yeah you know

So I haven't really been paying attention to this blog. And that's for two reasons.
1) I needed some actual good material to write down, because I can't just go ahead and write shit down now D: Like, even if I tried to sit down and force myself to write something, undoubtedly it would have come out as this jumbled mess of emotion, random poetry, and raging at parents! It helps when you're really in a 'blogging' mood because then everything flows so much more easily! :D
P.s I quit on writing the second part of mum raging. For
1a) My memory forgot half of the rest of the rage because I just said 'Fuck it'.
1b) No more raging and stuff. :P

2) I just didn't feel like it. It was great fun just not really caring about things, but now everything feels... different. I've grown a little bit taller for one :P And now the Korean Adults around me are actually starting to treat me much more differently than they used to. Everything feels so formal. And suddenly, I feel a lot more pressure and responsibility. I also however, feel like there are now some restrictions I have to place on myself, in order to 'conform' (*Shudder* I hate that word) with society.

Speaking of 'Formal' that also brings me to another thing. Now I've heard lots of people around me shouting and singing about formal and 'Oh how pretty this dress or suit' was, but wow. I really did not expect such a reaction when I told my mum 'I'm wearing jeans to formal'. Now, hush, if you're currently shouting at the screen, 'YOU'RE WEARING JEANS TO FORMAL??!?!?!', because if you are, post your address down in the comments below and I'll come and snap your neck for you :).
I have no idea why people are getting so psyched up about formal wear, nor can I understand why people are going out of their way to dress up for an occasion. The thing is, I'm in this period, and will be for the next half a year or so, where I'm growing rapidly. And truth be told, I'm probably not going to wear a suit (If I buy one) more than once, then I'm going to have to chuck it away. So no point in me buying a suit anyway. And besides. It's just a Year 10 Formal. Sure it's a pretty (small) big deal, ladela it's like a very big social, except just for Year 10's blah blah, OMG we're graduating.
Ok let me get my thoughts straight.
1) Why is everyone so tight about formal wear? My mum made the argument that 'It's called formal because you have to wear something formal there or they'll kick you out'. And I kinda just said ' Mum... If it's going to be like that, what's the point of me paying 160 dollars so I HAVE to wear a suit to what might be a hot canberran night?'. Does it say anywhere that I HAVE to wear a suit? Does it say anywhere that I CAN'T wear what I want there? Is there some kind of smallprint that says you'll get kicked out if you're not wearing 'Proper attire'? No! So I think I have every single right to wear WHATEVER I want to formal, and NOBODY should be complaining about it. HECK If I wanted to I could wear PYJAMAS to formal. My Point is, if I'm saying I want to wear Jeans to formal, then none of you should be trying to stop me. If I get embarrassed, then I get embarrassed.  You people don't get hurt. So don't interfere :)

2) What goes well with Black Jeans?

C Yall
Happeh Fun Timez


2 comments:

  1. I totally agree with you about the whole formal thing. Like everyone's all going "omg this is going to be the best night of my life this is SO IMPORTANT YES YOUR YEAR 10 FORMAL WHEN YOU'RE ONLY 16!"
    and i'm like... yeah sure i'll have a good night and shit but if for some reason it gets mysteriously cancelled i wouldn't really care that much (i mean i might now because like i've organised shit) but like... i'm not overly intense about it?
    as for jeans... YOU WEAR WHATEVER THE HELL YOU WANNA WEAR! I mean, i'm wearing a "formal" dress but i'm having fun with it (hello TARDIS) so do whatever the fuck you want and stab anyone who tries to stop you :D

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  2. Do whatever you want. You'll look great no matter what. This is your night so do whatever you want to enjoy it. Though, remember, the night belongs to each and every one of us so don't begrudge anyone for enjoying it their way either. It's a bigger deal for some than others but for ALL of us, it should be enjoyed. If that means spending all day making yourself look perfect, then do. If it means going in pyjamas, then do. It's about us, not the clothes, but the clothes can be fun too. :)

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